One Finds Limits by Pushing them.

"The subject of money is really two subjects: (1) money plenty of money and (2) absence of money not nearly enough money. Often people assume that because they are speaking the words "I want more money" they are speaking positively about money. When you are feeling fear or discomfort as you speak you are not speaking of the subject of money you are speaking of the subject of not enough money. And the difference is very important because the first statement brings money and the second holds it away."
Abraham-Hicks