We discuss our ‘scale’ which helps us discuss our true feelings with each other and with our family. This scale from 1 to 10 helps us communicate our true feelings and feel heard. It’s also helped our kids to feel heard and their opinions appreciated.
It’s helps us to see where the kids are so that they don’t have to misbehave to show us that they don’t want to be there or don’t want to do this. The scale helps us remain in integrity. It helps us make good decisions based on everyone’s true feelings.
It gives us a way to state our opinion without hurting anyone else’s feelings. We don’t want to raise a bunch of people pleasers. We want them to know that their opinions matter.
Please add your comments below so that we are fed by you. Also, invite your friends to join in the discussion so that we can be fed by them too!
Shreem,
Speak Your Mind